Why Women Reject Marriage Proposal. Every man needs to read this before proposing to the dream girl of his choice.
According to Seven women, there are seven reasons why women reject marriage proposals.
Have you ever proposed to a lady and she rejects your proposal and you are wondering what goes wrong?
Or are you planning to do the proposal but still contemplating if she would reject it?
In the recent Reddit and AskWomen thread, women give reasons they don’t accept marriage proposal.
Their reasons are totally valid and genuine. These reasons may serve as a guide before you propose to her.
Relationships are extremely complicating and personal.
There’s no crystal ball you can peer into or fairy godmother who can appear to tell you if getting engaged to your partner is the right decision for you.
What can help in marriage proposal?
- Honest conversations with your partner, therapy, and more — just like no two marriages are alike, no two journeys to getting there are the same, either.
- Be romantic
- Trust and Protection
Most men propose by surprise
Here are genuine reasons some women say NO to marriage proposal.
If it was a surprise and we’ve never even talked marriage or engagement. Or a public proposal, that’s like a nightmare for me.
If we didn’t talk about it beforehand. Even if I would have said yes, I need some time to process the idea. If you spring it on me, I’m going to freak out and have a breakdown in that moment, and possibly take off running.
If we hadn’t previously talked about getting engaged it’s probably too soon and I’d feel disrespected. If we hadn’t lived together minimum 6 months, 12-18+ months would be better.
If we were not on the same page and didn’t even talk about marriage/getting married/timelines for marriage
We reject proposal if we are not ready to spend the rest of our lives with him
Most ladies reject proposal if they are not ready to be put in a family way.
Not being the one I want to spend my life with. Not being financially stable.
not financially stable, if i haven’t gotten to know them for a long time, or if i personally just don’t see them as a lifetime partner
Not being Romantic Enough or satisfying
A lady might reject your proposal as man if you are not romantic enough for her.
I kinda wanted to say no to my fiancé because I wanted a meaningful sentimental proposal. I’m a big romcom fan I didn’t want like a public one or anything but like a real down on one knee sugarsodasofa you changed my life can’t live without you I love you blahblah marry me please thing. He just asked me in the car. We’d of course discussed marriage beforehand and we knew it was in the cards for both of us down the line. So idk be aware of what your SO expects from a proposal? Some people do just want a spontaneous like I ducking love you marry me?
Not believing in marriage or Love
A woman could reject your marriage proposal if she doesn’t believe in marriage.
Not wanting to marry the person or get married in general. Not a brain buster.
I would say no always. Personally I don’t think marriage is relevant, and am lucky enough to have found someone who feels the same.
Just the proposal in general. I don’t want to get married.
Lack of interest in marriage, whether to that person specifically or marriage in general.
Feeling shy or being embarrassed by the public proposals.
Most ladies don’t like it when a guy propose to them general public like market places, motor packs,etc.
I don’t know if this even counts, but if I was proposed to in public (even in front of family/friends) I’d say yes due to the sheer amount of pressure I’d feel but I wouldn’t be one bit happy and knowing me, just a public proposal alone, would make me break things off
It’s not as if proposing I public is bad but just know what your woman likes.
You may just look for a serene place and do your proposal.
Not liking the family
If a woman doesnt like your family, she might give a cold shoulder.
Something can go well, but just be missing that spark of “forever”.
You can truly care about someone, but just not see them in your future. This can happen for a lot of reasons, like goals, hopes, dreams, kids/no kids, and even family.
I mean, you could really love someone, but perhaps not their family. Perhaps their family/culture has quite different family boundaries/expectations than you are comfortable with. That could make it difficult to envision a future together.
In this article, you have read and seen why women reject proposal.
Thus, you need to take heed in order not to be embarrassed or heart broken.
I know it’s every man’s dream to surprise a woman by proposing, you need to do that carefully.
You may talk about it indirectly, see her reactions before proposing finally.
In the next article, we will see why men reject marriage proposal by female. Female also propose to men of course.